So, how did Valentine's Day go? Are you walking like you’ve been on a horse, or are you much more devastated than that? This is where I am going to get serious… The vagina can be a source of joy, or it can be a wrecking ball on the most stable of relationships - and that’s if you actually have any libido to start with. Couples have split over this, and I have heard the phrase “if only someone had just told me that” more times than I can count. The difficulty in talking about this subject - with partners, friends, or even healthcare professionals - is something I hear about day in, day out. Many women struggle to even raise it in conversation, let alone work up the courage to see a doctor, only to bail and talk about something else once they’re there. Not just that - older women often accept recurrent urinary infections, painful intercourse, or a prolapsed vagina as just part of ageing . But let me be clear: just because it’s common doesn’t mean it’s normal, and it absolutely doe...